Things You Have to Tell Yourself


  1. Saying "I don't know" does not make you stupid, but open up a chance for you to learn.
  2. Tell yourself to slow down whenever you think you are in a rushing situation. Deal with things with a calm mind. Always.
  3. People who hurt you are either weaker or stronger than you. If they are weaker, forgive them; if they are stronger, forgive yourself.
  4. Don't deny others when you haven't think in their shoes. You could be wrong.
  5. There will be things that everyone are doing, but you are not doing. It doesn't mean you are wrong.
  6. Don't let your brain to have a chance to be blur, avoid everything that can stop your thinking power. Keep you brain clear and thinking always.

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