Appreciate Life From Different Angle

In old times,

Someone invite a blind friend over for dinner.

They had a great time, outside is now all dark, the blind friend gonna leave soon.

Then this host passes him a lantern, the path is too dark he said.

The blind friend is furious, asking out loud "I'm blind! You pass me this lantern to make fun of me??"

The host says: "I give you this lantern because I worry about you, you don't see the road, how about others? Take the light with you, then you don't have to afraid to collide with anyone."


Every event, looking at it from a different angles, you would have a different perception, different thinking on the same event. The outcome eventually turns out different.

Try to understand how others feel, then you might see why others sometimes thinking the total opposite with you.
Try to put yourself further away from point of incident, you could get a bigger view.

Try to put on others' shoes, think for others, understand the frustrations of others, no one waking up every morning just to make others' life miserable.

Try to appreciate how lucky you are when you encounter a problem, by understanding the frustration of others.

Take a different views, enjoy the different scenery of life.

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